How to Pleasure a Woman in the Bedroom
Sexual pleasure is an experience that builds through intimacy and reaches a climactic peak, where there is a release of emotions and orgasm. Everyone is different, and we all have desires and needs that we hope to be met with our partners, but often we are left unfulfilled and craving more.
Men are typically quick to get turned on, and while they strive to spread out their sexual experience, they can reach climax in a short period. For them, this is often the peak of pleasure. Women usually have a different experience and need a build-up of emotional and sexual arousal to reach orgasm, but for them, pleasure is the journey and the destination.
Are you wondering how to pleasure a woman? While there are no rigid guidelines, here are the most effective ways to provide a great sexual experience for her.
1. Set the Stage
Women have better sexual experiences when they are relaxed and comfortable. At the same time, there are times when spontaneous sex is perfect. Most of the time, there has to be a calm setting so she can truly enjoy herself.
Set the stage early in the day by showing love. Hopefully, you are always loving, but you can put in a little extra effort with kisses and hugs in the morning, followed by extra attention throughout the day.
After dinner, run a hot bath with some candles to pamper her. She can unwind for an hour while you take care of domestic cleaning, so her night is free for fun. Tell her your intentions by telling her it’s her night for pleasure and all she needs to do is relax in bed and let you take over.
2. Sex Toys
It’s time to visit the sex toy store. While most people see sex toys as a solo adventure, using them while pleasuring your woman is smart. It can be hard to hit the right spot, especially when stimulating the clit, and fatigue can set in with your fingers and tongue. The right toy will keep going, designed to rub and flicker perfectly.
Other penetration toys are great, too and can hit the G spot and beyond. There are different toys for what she likes, including vibrators, dildos and anal toys to hit all the right spots to fully experience sexual bliss.
3. Take Your Time
For most women, reaching orgasm takes the right conditions and enough time to get there. If you go straight to the genitals and try to make her orgasm, it isn’t a great experience for her. Instead, let her know that you will explore her body all night. There are no expectations, and your only goal is to give her sexual enjoyment.
Start by touching and caressing her whole body, far away from her breasts and vulva. Besides your hands, you can also use your mouth and tongue to navigate and stimulate her as you find different erogenous zones. You aim to get her fully aroused before you hit her sexual centres.
4. Save Penetration Until The End
We all love to connect sexually, and our puzzle pieces fit perfectly, but it’s wise to save that until the end. Most women don’t orgasm through penetration alone, so save that for dessert.
As you explore, ask questions like “Does that feel good?” and “Do you like that?” You want her to be comfortable, so don’t do anything she isn’t into. Usually, her body language will help guide you. The nipples and clitoris are obvious pleasure centres but must be gently stimulated to enhance the sensation. Remember, the whole body can be an erogenous zone, so don’t miss any spot.
5. After Your Orgasm
For a man pleasuring a woman, it often is a mutual interaction with her pleasing you too and for a man, after an orgasm, they see it as the end of the experience. The desire doesn’t fade for a woman; this is your opportunity to keep going. Regardless of whether you climaxed through touching, oral or penetration, you should continue to give your woman more attention. This can be done with your hands, mouth or even a toy, and it not only continues her sexual experience but also gives you that refractory period to get an erection again.
Giving your woman pleasure should always be your goal in the bedroom, whether it is a sexy back rub before bed or a tantric sex session that lasts all night. Use these ideas to upgrade your pleasure-giving and treat your woman to the enhanced sexual release she needs. She will be more satisfied and probably want to return the favour, so it is in your best interest to provide that extra care and attention when you are intimate.
